Reading and Writing: Finding the Balance

Hey all! Today I have the amazing C.M. Keller on MFB. Not only is she one of this month’s amazing award sponsors, but she’s a kick-ass writer. I hope you all enjoy her tips on how to balance your reading and writing lives. Take it away, Connie.

“If you don’t have time to read, you don’t have the time 
(or the tools) to write.” 
Stephen King 

All writers have heard that quote or one like it. And we all know it’s true. But balancing the two is like herding cats. You can try, but you end up getting scratched. 
I know I tried. I’d begin writing and I get so involved with the story that I’d forget to read and I’d write and write until my creativity dried up and blew away. Then, I’d read until my eyes bled. I tried thrillers, devouring them (which helped me learn to craft tight plots) until I couldn’t stand another gun shot. So I focused on the classics (where I saw the power of understatement, metaphor, etc.) until I was ready to strangle yet another indecisive heroine. 
The only good thing was that when I finished the reading cycle, my creativity was recharged until I drained it dry. The cycle was not a good thing. Maybe a little OCD as well, but we won’t go there. 
I had to find a better, a more sane way of balancing my writer/reader issues. A way that would sustain me as a reader and a writer. I tried lots of things. They all failed. 
I’d like to say that I analyzed the situation and came up with a solution. But I found it by accident—I sort of fell into it. And it wasn’t until I realized the writing-reading was working, that I even wondered what I was doing differently. 
It started years ago, when a health problem made me commit to running, which I hate with a passion. So I bribed myself to run a treadmill. While I ran I could read “fun” books, thrillers, mysteries, and YA, but I could only read them when I ran. 
Then this fall, I decided that I’d devote all before-bedtime-reading to a classic or literary/upmarket novel. To make it even more fun, I asked/begged a writer friend to read the “classics” too—so we can exchange emails about what we’ve read. “Hey, did you finish chapter four last night? Did you notice how the author changed the mood, foreshadowing the end of the chapter?” 
The one final change I made was that any other free time belonged to writing. Even if a novel was calling out, “Read me, read me!” 
How did it work out? I’m reading more than I have in years. And writing…I finished a first draft in three months. (I’ve never written a novel in less than six months before.) 
So if you find yourself alternating between bleeding eyes and shriveled creativity, you could try what I’ve done. Either that, or give the Muse a call. I’ve tried, but I’m pretty sure she’s blocked my number. 
Thanks so much for this lovely post, Connie. I’ve been struggling with maintaining a sane balance, and now you made it sound so easy. 🙂
So, lovely people, how do you strike a balance between reading and writing? Do you suck at it like me? 
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24 thoughts on “Reading and Writing: Finding the Balance

  1. It is such a challenge. Especially when I'm editing. It's like the last thing I want to do is read for fun during that time. (Just makes me think about my own work!) Great tips. 🙂

  2. I think so many people struggle with this issue. Not only the issue of not having enough time, but deciding what to do with the little time you have!
    I try very hard to fit writing and reading in to my schedule.
    Usually i go in waves. For example, i may read 2-3 books for a few days, then write for a week or so. Then go back to reading more often than writing.
    sometimes its a few days before the switch, sometimes its a few weeks, and sometimes i wont read a book until i finish my WIP, (even if its 2 months away)

    Great post!!
    Theresa Jones

  3. I read for a half hour every morning while I eat my breakfast. So reading is part of my daily schedule. That's how I do it in my busy life. (P.S. You hate to run, but I don't. I love to run! I run outdoors three miles a day, five days a week. When it's cold, I hit the gym.)

  4. Stephen King eeks out a time in the afternoon for just reading. He also takes naps. Me? I've dedicated Sunday mornings to reading. I also read in the loo, but I can only get a page or two in then.

  5. Sometimes, I won't let myself read until I've written X number of words or scenes, but if the book is really hard that can be difficult. I'm on a production schedule now, so when I get close to a deadline I finish the book I'm reading as quickly as possible and won't let myself start anything new until the writing project is complete. Motivation ;).

  6. Great post. I save reading for times I'm too tired or too blocked to write. (And doctors waiting rooms, etc.) It works for me, and I usually get in at least a little reading most every day.

  7. Thanks for hosting Connie, Misha.

    Connie, that's wonderful you finished a draft in such a short amount of time. For many people, their first drafts take much longer than three months to put together.

    I try to read whenever I can—sometimes it's my “break-time” treat from writing.

  8. Sounds good to have some sort of system to it. I get annoyed if I have a day when I didn't have time to read – but on the whole I just read in bite-sized chunks, while cooking dinner etc. I've got used to doing it that way because I don't get large amounts of time to read.

  9. Wow! This is something I've always struggled with and you do make it sound simple. Hmmm, did you allocate time for the less upmarket books thought? When do you get to read your genre fiction?? 🙂

    What a great suggestion though Connie, and thanks for hosting her, Misha!

  10. I've struggled with this for a long time. As a matter of fact, I was reading a GREAT book and I had to put it aside to finish my edits. It stinks, but I can't wait to get back to it.

  11. I've struggled with this as well. Not a treadmill or gym kind of girl, but audiobooks while walking? Might be more inspiring than music. I will have to try it.

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